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Wes and Hadar’s Excellent Adventure

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Many more people participated in one or more of the activities I’m about to list. Only Wes and I enjoyed every single one of them, hence the accurate title. πŸ™‚

Wes flew up on Thursday morning and I picked him up at Newark Airport. We headed straight to the city and met Lois and two friends for lunch at Westville. We met there at 11:30am because the place is tiny and fills up fast. Only one of the five of us had ever eaten there, so it was a new experience for the three four of us. The food was fantastic! I had the Caesar Salad with grilled chicken. Here are pics of three of the dishes, starting with mine:

Caesar Salad
Caesar Salad
Greek Salad
Greek Salad
Hot Dogs
Hot Dogs

After lunch, Lois, Wes and I relaxed and caught up with work/email, etc. Then we headed for our night at the Highline Ballroom to see our favorite group, Girlyman. That evening was covered extensively in this post.

The next morning, after breakfast, we headed up to the house. Wes had never seen it. We logged on there and all did our own thing until lunch. After lunch, Wes and I headed to see the new Star Trek movie. Lois was intending to come as well, but we had a problem with the dampers again, and she called the HVAC people and waited for an emergency technician to arrive. Sorry Lois!

Wes Hadar Living Room
Wes Hadar Living Room

Wes and I both enjoyed the movie. I would be lying if I said it was great in any way (other than the special effects, which were stunning), but it’s action-packed, moves at a very quick pace, is an inventive story, etc. I agree with the comments I had heard about the movie before I saw it, that you don’t need to be a trekkie to appreciate the movie, but that it pays homage to the original in so many ways that it’s extra satisfying to a real trekkie. Kudos to JJ Abrams and the entire creative staff of the movie for pulling off that difficult balancing act!

When we got home, we both logged on again, andΒ  I finally got the blog post about Girlyman published. We then headed for dinner at a Chinese restaurant in Tarrytown (that we had never eaten at before). It wasn’t our original destination for dinner, but the two places we wanted to eat at were 30+ minute waits (you know, in this economy, where supposedly no one can afford to eat out any longer…). We were quite disappointed in our meals, so this place won’t be visited again by us. Oh well…

After dinner, we walked 200 feet to our real destination for the evening, Tarrytown Music Hall. We had 10th row seats to see Steven Wright, one of my all-time favorite standup comics. This was my first time seeing him live, but I’ve been a fan ever since he burst on the scene (probably longer ago than many of you are alive). πŸ˜‰

Steven Wright
Steven Wright

As is typical of most shows at Tarrytown Music Hall, he didn’t come on the stage until 8:25pm (scheduled time, 8pm). It’s annoying, but otherwise, we really love Tarrytown Music Hall. He was fantastic. He did his routine non-stop for 85 minutes.

For those of you don’t know, he’s the king of dead-pan one liners. For the most part, they are based on word play. He never (OK, rarely) smiles, except for specific effect. In other words, his own jokes don’t appear to make him laugh (and that works really well for his type of material). He only told one vulgar joke, and I’d bet that none of the kids that were in the audience had a clue that it was vulgar!

He used the F-word perhaps 10 times, so in general, his act is pretty clean. He speaks softly, so the audience trained themselves (incredibly quickly) to come to a dead silence seconds after laughing hysterically, for fear of missing the next joke!

Here are but two (of hundreds of) examples of the style of humor that no one masters quite like Steven Wright:

I have a friend who has a stained glass eye.

24-Hour Banking. I don’t have that kind of time.

No two jokes are connected. Topics fly all over the place. It’s really funny to hear delayed laughter around you, when you realize that people are trying hard to process a joke, and finally get it, a few seconds too late. πŸ˜‰

We had a great time there. Afterward, we drove back to the city and watched a bit of Conan O’Brien in his new gig as host of the Tonight Show. I also watched the first two nights on Hulu, and I think Conan is doing a marvelous job in his new time slot. Congrats Conan!

On Saturday, after breakfast and the obligatory emailing, Wes and I met Laura in the lobby and went on one of my patented long walks up the East River. It was the nicest day of 2009 in NYC (so far), and our walk was spectacular in every regard. It took us two hours and 10 minutes, and we loved every second of it (or at least I did!).

After a shower, Wes, Laura, Lois and I grabbed a cab and headed to Five Napkin Burger for lunch. None of us had ever been there before. So, what made me pick it for lunch? I subscribe to Fred Wilson’s blog (one of the top VC’s in NYC) and read every one of his posts religiously. He often writes about his wife, who blogs under the moniker The Gotham Gal. For whatever reason, I had never clicked through to her site.

The other day, Fred blogged that The Gothan Gal had updated the design of her site, and he was very pleased with the result. That’s the first time I clicked through. I liked her writing style and started reading a bunch of her posts. Then I came to this one about Five Napkin Burger! I decided to give it a shot. I’m very glad I did, as all four of us really enjoyed our burgers (all different kinds). Mine was an Italian Turkey Burger. Yum!

From there, the four of us walked back to Times Square, and went to see Angels and Demons. Thoroughly enjoyable. Substantially better movie than The DaVinci Code. We walked back to the apartment after that.

While I caught up on some email, Laura and Wes walked the few blocks to Red Mango and picked up frozen yogurt for a light dinner for the four of us. It was my first taste of it, and I liked it a lot. Chris (Laura’s husband), who was at the dentist while we were lunching and enjoying Angels and Demons, joined us for dinner, which he picked up for himself from the brand new Just Salad a block away from the apartment.

After dinner, the five of us grabbed two cabs and went to see the show Altar Boys at New World Stages. New World Stages is a fantastic space/building, a block off Broadway, that houses seven smaller theaters (Altar Boyz can seat 363 people). All of the shows are quirky (or at least have very quirky and provocative titles and posters). Wes picked this one.

Altar Boyz
Altar Boyz

Wes, Lois and I really loved the show. I caught Laura and Chris chuckling a few times, but I suspect (strongly) that they didn’t like it as much as the rest of us did. It’s very borderline whether any audience member will consider the show one of the following:

  1. Irreverent, but still uplifting and respectful of Christianity
  2. Blasphemous
  3. Some mixture of the two

Personally, I choose #1, with no hesitation, though I have no trouble accepting and understanding that many people could legitimately believe #2 is more accurate. Without a doubt, it’s blasphemous in it’s caricature of Boy Bands. But, in getting you to laugh at that, I believe it still very effectively gets across a message of the best of Christianity’s teachings. It turns out that Laura and her family made the show a birthday present for Lois, and Lois loved and appreciated every second of it!

Thanks M&M’s. πŸ˜‰

We walked home from the show. When we reached the apartment building, I made the scandalous suggestion that Wes and I go across the street to my favorite Mexican restaurant, El Rio Grande, for a nightcap. Laura and Chris decided to join us as well. Technically, the outside was closed already, but we’re regulars there, and they were kind enough to sneak us in. The inside was still officially open, but it was the most beautiful night, so we were glad to sit outside.

Three of us enjoyed frozen margaritas, and the fourth wisely picked a Banana Pinata for dessert, that the rest of us got to taste (and swoon over!). We then sat on our deck for another 40 minutes, soaking in the remainder of a perfect day.

This morning, we dropped Wes off at Newark Airport and headed down for our usual road trip down I95. Memories of a perfect weekend (uh, I mean, excellent adventure) still linger!

Wes, thanks so much for making the trek up from NC to spend such quality time with us! πŸ™‚

Comments

10 responses to “Wes and Hadar’s Excellent Adventure”

  1. Bob Mooney Avatar
    Bob Mooney

    What a great weekend….
    Thanks for sharing it w/ us…
    Bob

  2. Sally Avatar
    Sally

    Great to hear the details of your fabulous weekend. See you this week for concerts in Richmond!

  3. Laura M Avatar
    Laura M

    It was a fabulous weekend! And we definitely enjoyed the show… I think “irreverant but highly entertaining” was our final verdict :o). Wes, you obviously need to come to NY more often! πŸ˜‰

  4. peterhull Avatar
    peterhull

    Hi Hadar,
    Just happened across this note this morning and was chuckling. talk about 'small world' stories – my last boss at Tradeware was one of the initial investors in AlterBoyz. She is a complete propeller-head and we were all pretty surprised to hear that she had branched out into the theatre – and very happy to see that it worked out exceptionally well for all involved!

    QUESTION – when does the new Girlyman album hit iTunes??? I was playing some if their tunes at the farm last week and had a couple of people ask me where they could get more.

    As a follow-up, I did look into the idea of getting Girlyman a gig at the farm – but was told that they want to stick tight to the local music crew – who have supported us through rain, shine and snow over many years.

  5. hadar Avatar

    Cool small world story about Altar Boyz!

    As for Girlyman, the CD and download are now available on CD Baby (obviously importable into iTunes). Not sure if/when it will be on iTunes. It's already on Amazon, in CD form only, for $1 cheaper than CD Baby (no download yet). I am also currently the only reviewer of the CD at Amazon. πŸ™‚

    As for playing at the farm, oh well, at least we get many opportunities to see them! πŸ™‚

  6. peterhull Avatar
    peterhull

    Hi Hadar,
    Just happened across this note this morning and was chuckling. talk about 'small world' stories – my last boss at Tradeware was one of the initial investors in AlterBoyz. She is a complete propeller-head and we were all pretty surprised to hear that she had branched out into the theatre – and very happy to see that it worked out exceptionally well for all involved!

    QUESTION – when does the new Girlyman album hit iTunes??? I was playing some if their tunes at the farm last week and had a couple of people ask me where they could get more.

    As a follow-up, I did look into the idea of getting Girlyman a gig at the farm – but was told that they want to stick tight to the local music crew – who have supported us through rain, shine and snow over many years.

  7. hadar Avatar

    Cool small world story about Altar Boyz!

    As for Girlyman, the CD and download are now available on CD Baby (obviously importable into iTunes). Not sure if/when it will be on iTunes. It's already on Amazon, in CD form only, for $1 cheaper than CD Baby (no download yet). I am also currently the only reviewer of the CD at Amazon. πŸ™‚

    As for playing at the farm, oh well, at least we get many opportunities to see them! πŸ™‚

  8. dentist lexington ky Avatar

    Yummy looking food you got there! Making me hungry for some reason. Oh and good to hear that you guys had fun during your weekend.

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